Let's Rumble | Dan Deeble | Takeaways

Going Deeper Discussion

1. What’s that “Thing” or “Situation” that you’re dealing with right now? 

2. How much “Sideways Energy” do you expend over it & does that help? Mental energy? Triangling? Etc.?

3. What’s a time when you “Rumbled” with someone and it led to a surprising breakthrough or discovery? 

4. Have you ever tried to rumble and own your part, but things got worse? Describe, if appropriate. 

5. Of the three Takeaways, what is most meaningful for you today? 

   • You were made to rumble. 

   • The Holy Spirit rumbles with you. 

   • God rumbled for you. 

6. What is your personal takeaway & next step? 

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Teaching Notes

 “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18). 

• If it is possible-  

• Paul is a pragmatist

• Some things are beyond our control

• Possible means Dunaton: within your power or strength  

As far as it depends on you -  

• Who are you & what layers do you bring into the conflict? 

• Pain 

• Dignity 

• Patterns 

• Genesis 3:8-13: fear, hiding, shame, blame 

• Family of Origin 

• Context 

• Assumptions 

• Desire 

Brene Brown calls this A RUMBLE:  

Here’s the full quote: 

“...a {conversation} defined by a commitment to lean into vulnerability, to stay curious and generous, to stick with the messy middle...to take a break and circle back when necessary, to be fearless in owning our parts, and, as psychologist Harriet Lerner teaches, to listen with the same passion with which we want to be heard. More than anything else, when someone says, ‘Let’s rumble,’ it cues me to show up with an open heart and mind so we can serve the work and each other, not our egos.”

Brene Brown, “Dare To Lead” 

3 Takeaways 

1. God made you to rumble.

   You have redemptive capacity to do this! 

2. The Holy Spirit rumbles with you. 

• We have the spirit that lives within us (1 Corinthians 3:16).  

• Christ in you, the hope of glory. (Colossians 1:27).  

• The Spirit of Truth who guides us into all truth - about ourselves, others, God himself, the world (John 16:13) 

• The Spirit gives us courage and power (Ephesians 1:17-20) 

• The gifts of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control (Galatians 5:22) 

1. God rumbled for you.